Ready for a Healthy & Loving Relationship?

Change Your Patterns & Find Long-Lasting Love

Do you keep falling for emotionally unavailable people? 

Do you struggle to find emotionally healthy people attractive (they're boring or too nice)? 

Do you end up in push-pull relationships, pushing then pulling or being pushed and then pulled? 

Are you tired of living out the same self-defeating, painful patterns in your romantic relationships? 

If so, I know how you feel. I have been there. For years, dating felt like banging my head against a brick wall. I kept falling for commitment-phobes and unavailable types and I just couldn't find the available men attractive. 

I didn't understand where I was going wrong. 

Until I did. 

I finally understood my relationship patterns and I changed my dating dynamic in order to find long-lasting, committed love

I am now married to a wonderful man. 

I am passionate about helping people to break their dysfunctional relationship patterns and find healthy love and I have designed this course to support you to do just that.


On this self-paced course, which you will journey through at your own rhythm and in the comfort of your own home, we'll explore the following:

* How to spot emotional unavailability in others

* Why we fall for emotional unavailable people over and over again

* How to understand and heal our own emotional unavailability, if there is any

* How to stop the push-pull cycle in romantic relationships

* How to unearth and face the hidden fears that draw us into unhealthy relationships and away from healthy ones

* How to change our patterns and find long-lasting, committed love with an emotionally healthy person

The course consists of a series of insightful videos and reflective exercises that you work through in your own time. These videos and exercises dive deep, helping you to understand and change your relationship patterns.

If you are ready to invest in your romantic future and take a step towards the relationship you deserve, you can get started straight away.

Simply click on the BUY or PAY NOW button at the top or bottom of this page. If you'd like to explore the course further before investing in it, you can watch some free preview videos by creating an account. 

Looking for additional support tailored to you as you work through this course? Book a free discovery call with me via the button at the bottom of the page.

I look forward to supporting you on your journey to healthy love.

Course curriculum

    1. Welcome to How to Find an Emotionally Available Partner

    2. How to Navigate the Course Player

    3. About Your Course Host

    4. How This Course Works

    1. Being Available to Ourselves

    2. Spotting the Red Flags

    3. Brainstorming Potential Red Flags

    4. An Important Caveat

    1. Why We Ignore the Red Flags

    2. Dating with a Craving

    3. The Self-Esteem Issue

    4. Trying to Rewrite the Script

    5. Our Self-Sabotaging Fears

    6. What Are You Afraid Of?

    1. Challenging Your Fears

    2. Is It My Intuition Or Is It My Fear?

    3. Gaining Emotional Maturity

    4. Letting Go of Fantasy, Moving Into Reality

    5. The Push-Pull Dynamic

    6. Reading: Why We Push Then Pull in Relationships

    7. Red Flags or Our Defences?

    1. How Available Are You?

    2. Becoming More Emotionally Available

    3. What emotional availability looks like in another

    4. Drawing Up a Balance Sheet

    1. Getting the Support You Need

    2. Connecting & Wrapping Up

    3. Your Reflections on the Course

About this course

  • £68.00
  • 28 lessons
  • 1.5 hours of video content


Transformational Coach, Midlife Mentor, Author, Speaker

Katherine is an intuitive love, dating and relationships coach, a midlife mentor and the author of How to Fall in Love - A 10-Step Journey to the Heart.  

Drawing on her own experience of healing from dysfunctional relationship patterns and falling in love in her forties, Katherine helps people to transform their relationships with themselves, understand and change their dating patterns, create lives they love and find love.

Katherine coaches one-to-one and hosts courses, workshops and transformational retreats, in the UK and abroad. She also writes for the national media on love, dating, relationships and personal development.

Suzy Walker, editor of Psychologies magazine, described Katherine's book as "a wonderful handbook on relationships, which requires you to be brave, dig deep and face your fears about falling in love."

Katherine is a former international and political correspondent for the global news agencies Reuters and Bloomberg. As well as a compassionate and intuitive coach, she is an excellent communicator and a skilled trainer.

Katherine married her partner, Bill, in June 2019. It was a happy day, as the photograph below shows.


Katherine's How to Fall in Love course is exceptional


"Katherine's How to Fall in Love course is exceptional. It helps you in so many ways, besides intimacy and falling in love. Katherine brings back hope into your life and gives you just the right balance of gentle encouragement, personal insight and expert coaching. What’s more you feel that Katherine genuinely cares. She’s thinking of you even during ‘out of office’ hours. With Katherine’s support, I found the courage to proactively approach and start a new relationship with a caring and loving man. My eyes were open to all the pitfalls of my past and I was dating with an awareness I had never had before."

I've eventually allowed myself to open up and trust myself and my new boyfriend


"Katherine taught us how to listen to ourselves, to do things that truly make us feel alive and to test out our discoveries. I've eventually allowed myself (and am still allowing myself) to open up and trust myself and my now boyfriend, who feels just right, although quite different from what I imagined. I'm now starting to imagine a future for myself with a truly amazing, fun and secure person, which I had never thought possible or experienced before. I would recommend Katherine's course, book and Facebook group as a place to join with others on a journey of discovery, connection and courage. It will soften, challenge and inspire you."

I was lost as to why I couldn't find love


"I was lost as to why I couldn’t find love. Katherine helped me to look at my relationship history from a very different perspective and to understand who I am and why I am how I am. Most importantly, she helped me to discover a pathway to get me to where I wish to be. I'll be eternally grateful that I took the plunge and trusted Katherine with my innermost thoughts and feelings"

Suddenly, love came naturally to me


"Katherine's coaching has been incredibly helpful and so worth the investment. With Katherine's guidance, I finally dared to fully embrace and love myself and to believe that I am worthy of being loved. Not long after that, I entered into a new relationship. Suddenly, love came naturally to me. Katherine continues to guide me, helping me to see that it is safe to be vulnerable and authentic in my relationship - that it is safe to be me"

One of the best investments in myself that I have ever made


"I chose to work with Katherine as my coach for a number of reasons - in particular the combination of her professional credibility and experience with her personal integrity and honesty. It's difficult to express how great a help and support she was to me during this challenging period. I think my coaching with Katherine is one of the best investments in myself that I have ever made and I highly recommend her services"

Katherine has helped me to see the blocks I've had to intimacy


"I would have absolutely no hesitation in recommending Katherine to help and guide you through the emotional rollercoaster of dating and relationships. Katherine has helped me to see the blocks I have had to intimacy and relationships and helped me to understand when it is my intuition or my fear that's telling me to run a mile. Katherine's approach is a delightful mix of wisdom, gentleness, honesty, authenticity and humour”

We've got to the bottom of stuff that I've never been able to understand before


"My experience of working with Katherine has been really profound. She is very very good at what she does. We've got to the bottom of stuff that I've never been able to understand before"

Katherine has been where I am so I trust her experience


“Katherine's course has helped me to stop letting my imagination run riot but instead to focus on the practical steps I can take to create the life I want. She has taught me so much. Because Katherine takes my welfare in the world of dating seriously, so do I. She is encouraging and understanding. She's been where I am so I trust her experience"

I'm in an entirely different place to a month ago


"I have found the course to be incredibly powerful in changing my mindset and attitude. I feel like I am in an entirely different place to where I was a month ago, mentally, emotionally and physically."

A really wonderful, positive experience


This course has been a really wonderful, positive experience. If I compare how I felt five weeks ago to how I feel now, I feel much calmer, much stronger and much less panicky. The best thing about this course is that it teaches you to be strong and resilient and to source your own happiness, so that you are ready to meet someone. I'm more aware of my attitudes and I feel more positive and confident about who I am and about what I want from somebody - and what I don't want from somebody"